Reaching three decades of life is a great achievement. Many times we take the “third floor” for granted and sometimes we let it go unnoticed, but with it comes great lessons and spiritual growth.
When you reach 30, you learn how important it is to let go of what does not give you peace of mind.
Letting go is not easy, but it is a process that we all have to go through when something makes us doubt what we are capable of doing and how much we are worth. Taking that step outside is brave but necessary for your peace of mind.
Don’t hold on for comfort, nor for fear of the unknown.
Stop chasing and begging and Learn to let go of what does not do you good.
When you prioritize your peace of mind You understand that it is not worth wasting time on half-hearted loves, or empty friendships, or jobs that make you feel stuck.
So it’s time to let go of everything that causes you discomfort, what makes you doubt how great you are and that does not allow you to show your capabilities.
At 30 you learn that trying to control everything only leads to losing your mind and that having too many expectations of others only leads to disappointment.
And it’s not that you have to lower your standards or stop being ambitious, it just means that you learn to appreciate life as it is, even when it doesn’t always meet your expectations. You will never be able to make others the way you want and you will not be in control of everything no matter how hard you try.
It is not worth fighting for something as impossible as shaping the world to your whim so Why not better get away from what does not do you good and open the way for what does?
At 30, you learn to appreciate to people for what they are when they are good to you. They are your tribe, who help you grow and be better. You will never be able to turn someone into who you would like them to be, you will only break relationships with your attempts.
When they are toxic people to you, then let them go. If someone doesn’t value you, you can never convince them to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.You will only break your own heart trying.
At 30 you also learn to let go of that person with whom you cannot build a future. And it is not that at this age you have to have your life defined but that you understand that it is not worth investing time in someone who is not in the same channel as you. If it doesn’t complement you and make you feel at peace, then it’s not for you.
Prioritizing your peace of mind is letting go of the idea that you have to meet other people’s expectations.
At 30 you learn that the only one responsible for your happiness it’s you and nobody else. Your happiness should not depend on another person, your happiness should be achieved from within. Anyone else can only increase your happiness, not be responsible for it.
Now more than ever, It is important that you let go of everything that remains.
Stop trying to live up to other people’s expectations, this life is yours, nobody else’s. Are you living the life you want or are you too busy pleasing others that you have lost sight of who you are and what you want? Be your own ideal and create what you want to create away from what others are saying or doing.
Never sacrifice your peace of mind to chase someone who does not want to stay
You can’t force anyone to stay when there’s no love left
Remember this when you feel your world falling apart
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